Thursday, May 28, 2009

You Capture. Family.

The Challenge:

You Capture. Family.





When I first saw the theme of this week - this was the first picture that popped into my head. This was one of the first "family" photo's that my little family took. This was just a couple of hours after Hudson was born - and we were beyond thrilled.



Okay - now it's YOUR turn. Read up on the challenge here at I Should Be Folding Laundry.

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Oh - and by the way - if you do it - leave me a comment and let me know!!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Conversations with my Son

(10:00pm - trying to get Hudson to sleep)

Hudson: Mommy, tickle my belly.

Mommy: (tickles belly)

Hudson: Do the caterpiller.

Mommy: (tickles like a caterpiller) Monkey, mommy's tummy doesn't feel very good, so I'm going to go lay down. I love you so much.

Hudson: Maybe if I sing you a song you will feel better.

Mommy: (heart has melted into a puddle of the floor) - I bet you're right.

Hudson: Jesus Loves Me This I know....(sings the whole song)

Mommy: Thank you honey - that was so nice of you to help mommy feel better.

Hudson: Now you are good. You are feeling good.

Mommy: (Smiles and kisses her boy.)

Hudson: Now tickle my belly.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Food Allergy Dilemma of the Day - UPDATE

MISS AMBER rules!!!!!!

I just got an email back from his teacher (who happens to be my BFF!) and she said that she is specifically doing the shopping for their class in order to make sure that it's all safe for Hudson and he can eat everything - all the way down to the Cherrybrook Kitchen's cupcakes!

I LOVE HER!

Miss Amber - if you are reading - you are such a beautiful blessing to our family and to Hudson. We are all so lucky to have you and I appreciate, more than you'll ever know, the lengths at which you go to make my baby (and his momma) feel safe and included.

Food Allergy Dilemma of the Day

A couple of weeks ago I was perusing over my son's monthly school newsletter and schedule. Everything looked normal - a few additional school closures due to the Memorial Day holiday - but all in all - the same. Until I spied something new.


The school was having an "All School Teddy Bear Picnic" on the last day of school.

"How Cute!" I thought - imagining my darling Hudson carrying his beloved "Rup-bear" into school to share his lunch.


Then the words that cause an allergy-momma's heart to pitter patter - "LUNCH WILL BE PROVIDED"

And then the words that cause an allergy-momma's heart to break - "If your child requires a special lunch, please provide his/her meal."


So...I emailed the director of the school immediately to find out what they were serving for lunch - hoping that they take my baby's needs into consideration - I am even willing to make food for his class so that he can share with everyone and not be the only kid with his own "special lunch" at the All School Teddy Bear Picnic.


The response I got back was something to the effect of "Oh, I don't know - probably sandwiches of some sort and maybe a Spaghetti Pie"


Okaaaaaaaaay.


This does not help me. Sandwiches immediately make me think Peanut Butter as this is not a nut-free school. If it's a meat sandwich of some kind - the bread may or may not be safe. If they have mayo, that is not safe. My quick search on recipes.com shows that spaghetti pie contains eggs (not to metion the high likelihood of cross contaminated noodles).


So now I have a choice to make.

Turn the All School Teddy Bear Picnic into a learning experience for my 2 1/2 year old (who is already aware that he can't share food and there are safe foods and not safe foods) and have him be the only kid singled out during a big day of sharing lunch?

Or do I protect his precious heart and go pick him up before the All School Teddy Bear Picnic and take him out to a special lunch with just mommy and we'll have our own picnic?

I know what I really want to do - but am I over reacting?

Probably.

And Hudson probably wouldn't care.

Probably.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Random Picture Challenge

In an effort to blog more often, I keep meaning to join up in some of these "Random" postings/challenges that I see so many people take part it.

And by people, I mean the awesome other bloggers that I read and subscribe to.

Many times I click on "keep unread" on these challenges thinking I'll get to it after work, or tomorrow, or whenever, and never do. Today I'm not gonna procrastinate!

Here is my first "Random Picture Challenge" - taken from 4 little men and girly twins, which I found via The Miss Elaine-ous Life.


The Challenge:

9th Picture folder - or September 2008
18th Picture

I used my September 2008 folder since my 9th picture folder didn't have 18 pictures.



Hudson and Daddy - just hangin' out. Reading some magazines.

Okay! Your Turn! Go here to see more cuteness and post your own!

Friday, May 15, 2009

Conversations with my Son

Hudson: Mommy - Jesus will give you your penuh (penis) back when you see Him.

Mommy: Oh, He will?

Hudson: Uh-huh. He will give it back. You will have it back.

Mommy: Hudson - you know that Jesus loves you so much. How much does Jesus love you?

Hudson: Jesus loves me SO Soooooooooooooooooooo much.

Mommy: That's right - and how much does Hudson love Jesus?

Hudson: Soooooooooo much!

Mommy: Hudson - where does Jesus live?

Hudson: (without hesistation) in New York City

Mommy: (stifling my laugh) - I think Jesus lives in Heaven.

Hudson: (again - without hesistation) No, Mommy - New York City.



Man I love that kid.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Breast Cancer Petition - PLEASE SIGN

Please consider signing this petition to eliminate drive-through mastectomies.

We were blessed when my grandmother had her mastectomy to have a close family friend that was a home health nurse who was able to assist us after she came home. I can't imagine what families go through with these "drive-through" mastectomies.

Please sign.

Thanks to San Diego Momma for showing me the link.

Now you go spread the word.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Check this out. It's good stuff.

Good Stuff

Thursday, April 16, 2009

24/31 Positives - What a Bummer!

So, most of you know that we took Hudson for skin testing on Tuesday. Based on his RAST (blood test) results, we knew that he was still allergic to nuts/eggs, but the RAST numbers had decreased so we were hoping that a skin test might reveal a negative.

With this appointment, I requested that we test him for other environmental triggers (trees, weeds, grasses, molds, animals) since he is pretty symptomatic. For a kiddo the panel consists of 24 allergens. Dr. Kayser agreed that based on his history and the fact that he was using a daily inhaler + Zyrtec and still had symptoms, that it was a good idea.

The appointment started off okay - he was in a good mood. Until the nurse took his blood pressure (first time for him) - he FREAKED out. They actually had to do it twice because he was so panicked by it that it would read correctly. Anyway - the funny part was that after she was finished the second time she was leaving and Hudson growled really loud as she walked out. He turned and through his tears said "I growl her out!". It was hilarious.

Anyhoo - next nurse came in to write the numbers on his back. He had a columns 1-12, 13-24, and A-G. He was very upset when we took his shirt off - did not want that, so that started it all. He pretty much cried hysterically as Jared held him (hug style - facing Jared) and two nurses administered 31 scratch tests.

The hardest part, for us, was that once they left, we still couldn't hold Hudson like normal to calm him because we could not touch any part of his back. He kept asking us to scratch/itch his back. Pretty much immediately we started seeing the makings of reactions.

By the time the test was completed, he was allergic to 26 of the 31 items tested for. Some were more significant than others, but essentially the only things that he was NOT allergic to were Oak, two types of grass, and dust (thank goodness!).

He was still allergic to eggs, slightly allergic to 5 additional nuts, significantly allergic to peanuts. He is slightly allergic to all of the spring pollens, more allergic to all weeds (so Fall will the hardest for us in Central Texas) and significantly allergic to dogs and cats.

We are in the process of re-cleaning the house, etc, and coming up with ways to minimize the amount of dander that comes off of Gunny. We think that the combo of his slight allergies to everything else in the world, combined with Gunny is what gives him the symptoms. The spring season should be his healthiest season. So - we're working on that.

We left with a lot to think about, a new prescription allergy med to start in the late summer, an a worn out kid! We went out to lunch at Chili's (they have a safe foods menu) and Hudson slept on Jared's shoulder through the entire lunch.

Anyway - just wanted to let you guys know how it went...I was expecting the results to be exactly what they were (based on his symptoms), but was REALLY hoping for better, so it was a little disappointing. But - as always - it could be so much worse and we are so lucky to have such a happy, healthy, smart and active little boy. Being in those specialty pediatric offices really give you perspective. 25/31 allergies is NOTHING compared to what others handle.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

It's the little things....

that bum me out the most about food allergies.


You know - we totally deal with and handle Hudson's allergies. The food allergies and the allergies to everything else. We are fine with it because we are so lucky and blessed to have such a beautiful, happy, healthy, smart and thriving little boy.

Our blessings are many.

But sometimes it's the little things that really bum me out.

Like this:


I have such fun memories of dying easter eggs - even into adulthood, I remember when Jared and I were dating - probably the first 7 years of our relationship - we colored and decorated Easter Eggs every year. Just the two of us and it was so fun.

I remember coloring and decorating Easter Eggs with my sister and cousins and friends during my childhood. It was something we looked forward to every Spring.

So, even though I know how incredibly lucky I am to have a healthy and beautiful two year old, I still can't help but get a little bummed out when a holiday rolls around and we have to remind people (family included) that we can't dye Easter Eggs because


It's funny, too, because our family is quite cautious about his foods - but it's so easy to forget...even some traditions - like coloring eggs or decorating christmas cookies or trick or treating - they all have to be planned out well in advance and safety precautions taken. Or alternatives thought up. This year I am buying wooden eggs and paints and we will decorate and paint our eggs. The cool thing is that we'll be able to keep them from year to year, so I'm looking forward to starting that tradition.

Hudson doesn't know what he's missing. That is the beauty. I've been able to keep him sheltered from the majority of the things that he cannot do and the treats that he cannot have. I come up with alternatives and most of the time he never knows. So that is a huge blessing.

But I know.


And sometimes it makes me feel a little sad.